Let dirty talk elevate your sexual experience, not hinder it. The sooner you disregard the pressure you put on yourself, the easier exploring the sexual experience will be. Communicate, explore, and communicate some more. A greater sense of intimacy can blossom in your relationship by learning how to talk dirty. I don’t have any panties on. I’m dripping. I need to feel you against me. I need your lips against my skin. Just wait until we get home. I want your mouth on me. I want you to fuck me from behind. I want you inside of me. I want to see you play with yourself. I want you to undress me. I want you between my thighs. I want to taste you. I want your cock in my mouth. Caress me all over. Come for me. Kiss my nipples. Choke me. Grab my ass. Just like that. Right there. Pull my hair. Bite me. Look at me. Talk to me. Say my name. Whisper in my ear. Don’t stop. Moan for me. Stroke my cock. Play with my clit. Get over here. You like that? You do that so well. Your cock/pussy feels amazing. I love your body. I love it when you grit your teeth. I love it when you whisper in my ear. I love it when you touch me there. I love the way you moan. I love the way you taste. Slower. More. Faster. Deeper. Please. Louder. Fuck. Your tongue is magical. That was incredible. You want to go again? I can’t get you out of my mind. Remember last night when we [insert sexual activity]? Wow. What sex position was your favorite? My body misses your [insert body part]. Thinking about you makes me want to touch myself. I really liked it when we [insert sexual activity]. Let’s try that again. I can’t wait to fuck you tonight. I’ve been thinking about [fill in the blank] all day long, and I can’t wait until we can [fill in the blank]. What do you think about doing [insert sexual activity] the next time we’re in bed? I’ve been looking forward to sitting on your face all day long. I know it’s been a long day. That’s why I’m going to [insert sexual activity] when you get home. It makes me horny when you [fill in the blank]. You’re always on my mind. I want you so bad. You look good enough to put in my mouth today. You make me so wet/hard when you moan. Personalize these phrases to fit your relationship, and match the language you and your partner already use. Remember, one couple’s vanilla is another couple’s kink. I wish I could hold you right now. I miss the way you feel inside of me. I miss the way you taste. I miss the way your [insert body part] feels [insert verb] against my [insert body part]. When I get back, I’m going to [insert sexual activity]. I can’t wait until I can go down on you again. I’m going to fuck you so hard when I see you. I’ll rip your clothes off the moment I see you. I want to see you naked…right now. Just hearing your voice makes me want to touch myself. I love it when you talk like that. Tell me what you want to do to me. I want to feel how wet/hard you are. Play with yourself for me. Whisper dirty things to me. Tell me what you want from me. Are you touching yourself? Do you want to have FaceTime sex? Are you alone? Do you miss my body? What else do you like when I do it to you? Do you want to listen to me come? The way you’re sexting me is hot; want to show me what you’re talking about? I’m touching myself. Do you want to taste? With a unique view on life, she taps into her own experiences to guide folks to live life for themselves, empowering them to explore their inner wild and find their own way in adulthood. Her weekly newsletter is a tiny way she furthers her mission to hold space for the unfathomable, romantic, and messy parts of life that make it that much more beautiful.
